by Mark Pitstick MA, DC

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This evidence-based information and holistic resources will help you to . . .

  1. Adopt a more accurate worldview based on contemporary understandings about ‘the big picture of life’ and live accordingly – whatever that means for you. (see article #19 ‘The Great News’ about the Nature of Reality at SoulProof.com)
  2. Experience shorter and lightened grieving after loved ones change worlds and other big changes that seem like losses.
  3. Fine-tune yourself physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually so you have the vitality to handle life’s demands AND share your greatest gifts / soul’s missions.
  4. Become more aware of, benefit from, and share life’s silver linings that always accompany opportunities masquerading as adversity
  5. Create the greatest life YOU have envisioned. (The term ‘YOU’ refers to your higher self / eternal consciousness / soul)
  6. Fulfill your highest purposes for being on earth and help make our world a better place. This is now practically possible as discussed in article #125 Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now. As enough people do this, widespread personal and planetary change will naturally unfold.

To learn more about how you achieve these lofty goals, read the following articles at SoulProof.com/Articles AND watch videos at SoulProof.com/Greater Reality Program.  

     #131 Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program; videos Greater Reality Program

     #82 Greater Reality HEALING; videos at Greater Reality Healing

     #72 Greater Reality LIVING; videos at Greater Reality Living

     #119 Greater Reality HELPING; videos at Greater Reality Helping

 

Which One Will Be My Spouse in the Afterlife?!

This very short article addresses a commonly asked question.  Here’s one example . . .

Q: My former husband passed on eight years ago and has stayed in touch by different signs.  I remarried five years ago.  How will that work after my current husband and I pass on? – Rose

A: Oh my, Rose, that could be one big cat fight!  Seriously, the short answer is that you can spend time with either husband, both, or neither.  Life beyond earth is not as black and white as you might think.  There are several aspects to this so stay with me and read the articles listed at the bottom to learn more. 

  1. In the afterlife, you can consciously multilocate. That is, you can enjoy parallel realities as your energy / consciousness manifests in more than one place and way at once. For example, 30% of the totality of your energy might be with your first husband, 30% with your second, and the other 60% can enjoy other space-time possibilities.  As such, it’s not a matter of choosing one or the other.
  2. Both men may not be primary soulmates even though they were your husbands in this space-time slice of life. As such, your time with them in the afterlife might be minimal. Souls often have 20 or so primary soulmates with whom they closely interact over time.  However, close relatives – such as your husbands – could be secondary or even tertiary souls to you.  Even though they agreed to play the role of husband during this earthly visit doesn’t mean you will have ongoing relationships with them.  It’s a matter of choice though so that can happen if you both want.
  3. Relationships in other realms are usually quite different from those on earth.  Part of the concern behind this question can be jealousy, insecurity, guilt and other lower-energy emotions.  Those are usually much less common after graduating from earth-school.  This is especially the case for people / souls with intermediate to advanced energies and learning.
  4. Gender is not fixed in the afterlife. Your husbands in this earthly experience may have ‘tried on’ masculine roles, but they usually assume more feminine orientations. Or they may mainly be masculine and want to experience life from a feminine perspective in the after.  And vice-versa with you.  As such, you may be their husband in the next phase of life instead of their wife.  Considering these possibilities is admittedly mind-boggling, but some evidence indicates that people / souls are not always the same gender.  This realization can help you and others have more open minds to those along the spectrum between heterosexual and homosexual.
  5. We each are sacredly interconnected and essentially One with all life. So, from the most absolute view of reality, there’s no end to love and life.  There will be plenty of opportunities for you to interact with both men / souls so please don’t worry about the details. The brain cannot compute what the heart and soul understand.  This will work out just fine, especially when that is your intention.

To learn more about some of the topics in this article, see the following articles at SoulProof.com/Articles:

#18 LGBTQI and Spirituality

#75 Multilocation / Parallel Realities / Simultaneous Experiences

#107 What Is the Afterlife Like?

#108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being

#121 Soulmates

I hope this article helps you enjoy your current relationships, and relax about how those play out in the afterlife. 

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Thank you for telling others about this article!  Your life, and that of others around you, will be more enriched when you:  

  1. read the article again so you really know it.
     
  2. discuss with close family and friends to more deeply internalize it.
     
  3. take action steps that seem right for you.
     
  4. share it with others via social media, discussion groups, and other ways.

Hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark

Mark Pitstick MA, DC

– a​uthor, lecturer, c​ounselor, and holistic chiropractic physician 

– spokesperson, researcher, and strategic planner for SoulPhone Project

– ​founder of ‘Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program’

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University-based research has now scientifically proven that life continues after bodily death.  The SoulPhone Project will enable communication with postmaterial (so-called “deceased”) loved ones and luminaries who want to help us heal our world. How does this project, The Great News, and The 8 Developments affect the way you live and treat others and our planet?  (To learn more, see articles #35, 19, and 125 at SoulProof.com/Articles)

Dr. Pitstick is a master’s clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, and clinical nutritionist.  He has also helped others in pastoral counseling and suicide prevention / education settings.  His goal is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst eternity. 

To learn more about the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program, visit the ‘Greater Reality Programs’ top tab at SoulProof.com and SoulPhone.org.  Also see  articles #19, 72, 82, 119, and 125 at SoulProof.com/Articles.

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Note: This article is intended as a reference source, not to replace professional treatment for physical, emotional, or mental problems.  The author disclaims any liability arising directly or indirectly from the voluntary use of action steps discussed in article. 

Dr. Pitstick created this article while ‘wearing the hat’ of a clinician, counselor, and educator.  His statements are based upon some scientific research; much clinical and experiential evidence; his personal experiences; and best current understandings.  This article does not reflect his role in the SoulPhone Project since that requires scientific data for all statements.