by Mark Pitstick MA, DC

My e-books, ​audio books, audio programs, documentary film, radio shows, articles, and ‘Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program’ are ​all FREE at SoulProof.com.  In lieu of payment, I ask that you fully use the products, share them, and help others as you feel called.

This evidence-based information and holistic resources will help you to . . .

  1. Adopt a more accurate worldview based on contemporary understandings about ‘the big picture of life’ and live accordingly – whatever that means for you. (see article #19 ‘The Great News’ about the Nature of Reality at SoulProof.com)
  2. Experience shorter and lightened grieving after loved ones change worlds and other big changes that seem like losses.
  3. Fine-tune yourself physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually so you have the vitality to handle life’s demands AND share your greatest gifts / soul’s missions.
  4. Become more aware of, benefit from, and share life’s silver linings that always accompany opportunities masquerading as adversity. 
  5. Create the greatest life YOU have envisioned. (The term ‘YOU’ refers to your higher self / eternal consciousness / soul)
  6. Fulfill your highest purposes for being on earth and help make our world a better place. This is now practically possible as discussed in article #125 Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now. As enough people do this, widespread personal and planetary change will naturally unfold.

To learn more about how you achieve these lofty goals, read the following articles at SoulProof.com/ArticlesAND watch videos at SoulProof.com/Greater Reality Program.  

 

7 Keys to Helping Others and Sharing Your Greatest Gifts

On December 15, 2025, I visited a magnificent Catholic cathedral in Orvieto, Italy.  This peaceful Etruscan town developed around 900 BCE, but was conquered by the growing Roman Empire six hundred years later.  The church was built around 1600 CE as Orvieto became a retreat for several popes.  While sitting on an ancient pew, I meditated and prayed.  As always, I thanked my spiritual support team for their guidance, assistance and love.  (My team includes angels, guides, master teachers, my higher self / soul, and The Light.  Master teachers whose influence I feel most strongly are Jesus, Buddha and Quan Yin.)

The outside and inside of the building reflected the magnificence of Creator, life, and what humans can achieve when they work together.  Angel sculptures reminded me that we are not alone during this earthly experience.  The huge stain-glassed window brought to mind the words ‘The Eye of the Divine’. 

I’m aware that this denomination, because of its immense wealth and power, has an unholy and bloody history at times.  As the old saying goes: ‘Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.‘  Beginner souls – almost always incarnating as men – take advantage of others to gain more wealth, power, and pleasure.  However, there also have been many loving, service-oriented, and compassionate people in powerful religious institutions.  Many priests, nuns, and laity did the best they could but some people predictably took advantage of others.   

I was prepared to feel anger at all the deaths and mistreatment committed by the church in the name of God.  I had also prepared myself to not get irate about all the wealth spent on huge buildings and artwork.  To my surprise, I felt that at least part of the thinking behind that spending was well meant.  The goal was to uplift people’s spirits and inspire them with the magnificence of the Creator and creation.  As mentioned, it also showed what people can achieve when working together with persistence, organization, and hard work. 

That evening, I caught up on the news but quickly wished I hadn’t.  Murders of Rob and Michelle Reiner, two students at Brown University, and sixteen people at Bondi Beach in Australia dominated the headlines.  That night, I had a long and vivid dream of being on a boat having a lovely dinner.  However, after observing other customers, I realized that trafficked women were being forced to entertain wealthy and immoral men there. 

In my dream, I talked with the restaurant’s owners the next day.  They hated that this illegal activity went on and had reported it to the police, but no action was taken.  (Men who are supposed to protect innocents but accept payoffs is another of earth’s oldest stories.)  The owners and I contacted the newspaper, state police, and federal anti-trafficking agency.  In the news, people were asked to patronize the restaurant that was now working with authorities to help these women.  The efforts were successful and it led me, still in my dream, to thinking . . . what are the keys for helping people in this and other tough situations? 

Upon awakening, I realized this intense dream was my reaction to the sacred inspiration I felt at the cathedral AND all the darkness in the world as shared in the news.  I quickly thought that a meta-key for helping all this is simply for more people to share their greatest gifts.  Put another way, the world’s problems will be solved when enough people identify and fulfill their highest callings.    

I finished this article on 12/29/25.  The second half of December is considered a spiritually auspicious time by numerous religions and spiritual groups.  This article describes an example of an important lesson that helped me and can help you.  I realized that my anger, frustration, and discouragement about ‘evil doers’ doesn’t serve anyone.  To the contrary, it perpetuates lower-energy emotions and deeds instead of realizing that reality consists of higher energies of peace, joy, love, gratitude, light, and more.  Darkness automatically disappears when enough light is turned on.  Are you ready to do your part?

Note: Articles recommended below are free and available at SoulProof.com/Articles; audio programs and e-books are free at SoulProof.com/Shop 


7 Keys to Help Others and Share Your Greatest Gifts


Key #1: Remember Who You Are and Why You’re on Earth Now

Much scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence now definitely proves that you are an eternal being of consciousness, energy, life-force, and soul / spirit.  The more you REALLY know that and live accordingly – whatever that means for you – the better your earthly experience will be.  As many people have demonstrated, this is true no matter what your past or current circumstances.  In fact, people with more advanced energies recognize that challenges are exquisite opportunities for service, love, growth, learning, enjoyment, and adventures. 

To learn more, see my books The Afterlife Evidence and The Eleven Questions, and articles . . .  

#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life

#15 The Nature of Humans

#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death

#115 Experiential Evidence for Life After Death

#118 Who and What Are You Really?


Key #2: Know and Show ‘The Great News’ about the Nature of Reality

In the past, humans often believed fear-based and erroneous teachings about life, death, afterlife, and Creator.  We now can benefit from contemporary understandings about how life is really set up . . . and it’s all great news!  Gary E. Schwartz PhD and I compiled a list of ten indications about the big picture of life that is very comforting, inspiring, and empowering.  However, a deeply internalized knowledge about this great news is much better than a superficial and intellectual one.  To learn more, see articles . . . 

#19 ‘The Great News’ about the Nature of Reality

#16  Evidence-Based Teachings About the Nature of Reality

#123 Eleven Ways to Deeply Internalize ‘The Great News’

#72 Greater Reality Living: Integrating ‘The Great News’ Into Your Daily Life

 

Key #3: Work with Your Spiritual Support Team 

I talked about my spiritual support team in the introduction.  You also have a team that guides and assists you – especially when you ask for it, give thanks, and use it to help yourself and others.  Your earthly experience will flow much better when you work with them each day.  Native Americans considered each day to be a walk in the woods with Great Spirit; that’s a wonderful way to envision all the love and help we receive.   

To learn more, use my audio program Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light and see articles . . .

#13 What is G.O.D. Like?

#71 Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light

#73 Angels and Higher Energy Assistance


Key #4: Focus on Higher-Energy Thoughts, Words, and Actions

I know that life on earth can seem very dark and hopeless; that’s why it’s important to focus on the positive / loving as much as possible and do what you can to brighten the world.  It’s also vital to avoid too much negative, superficial, and sensationalistic news.  As the old sayings remind us: ‘Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want’ and ‘As you think, so shall you be.’ 

This key is much more important than you might initially realize since it’s not just about how you feel.  You are a being of energy so what you predominantly think, say, and do determines whether you are enjoying high levels of energy or lower ones.  The former creates a heavenly level of existence while the latter results in a more hellish one that is temporary and self-induced. 

Using conscious language is a huge key to making this shift.  Chapter 2 of the Shining Light Parents Speakbook is an excellent way to upgrade to thinking, speaking, and living based on current understandings about how life is actually set up.  (This book helps all people, not just bereaved parents.)  To learn more about this key, see articles . . .

#108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being

#116 Terms for Optimally Living on Earth and Beyond

 

Key #5: Fine-Tune Yourself Holistically 

Making a positive difference on a regular basis requires extra energy, clarity, and strength.  Many people are chronically fatigued, depressed, anxious, in pain, and more but it doesn’t have to be that way.  After working with tens of thousands of patients for over 50 years, I know just how resilient and self-healing your body is.  Getting well again is often easier and quicker than most people can imagine. 

I hope you spend some time, energy, and money to fine-tune the temple of your soul so you can fulfill your highest purposes AND enjoy the greatest life you have envisioned.  To learn more, see Radiant Wellness: A Holistic Guide for Optimal Body, Mind & Spirit, and articles . . .

#12 Optimal Self Care: How to Holistically Fine Tune Yourself

#32 Nutrition-Based Healing

#33 Six Stressors

#38 Holistic Solutions for Common Symptoms

#87 Natural Health Care

#88 Whole Food Way of Eating and Supplements

 

Key #6: Identify and Fulfill Your Highest Purposes

The first five keys ‘set the stage’ for identifying and fulfilling your soul’s missions.  Everyone has a calling and your life-force flows more wonderfully when you share your greatest gifts even a little.  What’s more, many people and our world are helped when you do what you, as a soul, came to earth to accomplish.  It’s a triple win.  Don’t put pressure on yourself about this; just do what you can and know that’s enough.  A paraphrased statement by Rev. Sydney Smith is very instructive here: ‘It is a great mistake to do nothing because you think that you can only do a little.’

My audio program, Identify and Fulfill Your Purposes AND Create Your Greatest Life Technique, will help you achieve the goals in this admittedly long title.  It uses deep relaxation and guided imagery to quiet your brain and access the inner knowing of your higher self / eternal consciousness.  Before using the audio program, read article #21  Identify and Fulfill Your Highest Purposes.  Also read article #80 Why Are You on Earth Now?  S.A.G.E. Training

 

Key #7: Expand Your Team of Kindred Spirits

Having more people with open hearts and minds in your life makes this earthly experience more easy, fun, and successful.  In addition, being on a team of like-minded people multiples the impact of your efforts and helps you meet more evolved folks.  In article #125 Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now, I list organizations that you can join and work with.  This includes one I formed this year, the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program.  It provides free articles, videos, and meetings to help you achieve the goals in the title.  I personally invite you to join us so you can heal yourself, create a great life, and help others and our world. 

To learn more, see articles . . .

#66 Optimal Relationships for More Evolved People

#131 Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program

#128 My Advice If You Are a More Advanced Soul OR Want To Become One

I hope this article helps you share your greatest gifts and, in turn, bless many people and our planet.  The world needs your special talents and soul’s special gifts.  You may be among the critical mass of people who tip the scales toward widespread personal and planetary peace and wellness.

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Thank you for telling others about this article!  Your life, and that of others around you, will be more enriched when you:  

  1. read the article again so you really know it.
     
  2. discuss with close family and friends to more deeply internalize it.
     
  3. take action steps that seem right for you.
     
  4. share it with others via social media, discussion groups, and other ways.

Hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark

Mark Pitstick MA, DC

– a​uthor, lecturer, c​ounselor, and holistic chiropractic physician 

– spokesperson, researcher, and strategic planner for SoulPhone Project

– ​founder of ‘Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping Program’

SoulProof.com     SoulPhone.org     ​​GreaterRealityProgram.com ​

University-based research has now scientifically proven that life continues after bodily death.  The SoulPhone Project will enable communication with postmaterial (so-called “deceased”) loved ones and luminaries who want to help us heal our world. How does this project, The Great News, and The 8 Developments affect the way you live and treat others and our planet?  (To learn more, see articles #35, 19, and 125 at SoulProof.com/Articles)

Dr. Pitstick is a master’s clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, and clinical nutritionist.  He has also helped others in pastoral counseling and suicide prevention / education settings.  His goal is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst eternity. 

To learn more about the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program, visit the ‘Greater Reality Programs’ top tab at SoulProof.com and SoulPhone.org.  Also see  articles #19, 72, 82, 119, and 125 at SoulProof.com/Articles.

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Note: This article is intended as a reference source, not to replace professional treatment for physical, emotional, or mental problems.  The author disclaims any liability arising directly or indirectly from the voluntary use of action steps discussed in article. 

Dr. Pitstick created this article while ‘wearing the hat’ of a clinician, counselor, and educator.  His statements are based upon some scientific research; much clinical and experiential evidence; his personal experiences; and best current understandings.  This article does not reflect his role in the SoulPhone Project since that requires scientific data for all statements.